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Let me help you answer your "Now what?" question before or after leaving abuse!

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Take the time to learn what your needs are. Let me know which self-study class you would like to receive.

From drinking whiskey every day to quitting cold turkey...from not knowing what my skill level was with anything to building a non-profit from scratch. I can help you learn how to look at your life from a new perspective with a world full of options!

victorylife house victim survivor domestic violence intimate partner nation DV overcomer solopreneur founder nonprofit charity north carolina abuse physical violence sex abuse intimidator coercion male prvilege economic isolation emotional abuse threatening denial domestic intimate partner

Thinking of Leaving?

One of the scariest things to consider is leaving your abuser. The amount of "what if" questions can make you feel like you are going crazy. If  you are at this point and want some guidance, let me know which class(es) you want to receive!

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victorylife house victim survivor domestic violence intimate partner nation DV overcomer solopreneur founder nonprofit charity north carolina abuse physical violence sex abuse intimidator coercion male prvilege economic isolation emotional abuse threatening denial domestic intimate partner

Have you already left?

Healing doesn't happen overnight, and could take us years to admit to ourselves that we even need help. If  you are at this point of knowing you don't have it all together, are serious about getting over it & truly moving on, and want some guidance, let me know which class(es) you want to receive!

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"You're no good to anyone unless you learn how to take care of yourself first.

Throughout the FREE self-study classes the focus is on change.
 
Change your mind. Change the world!
Living with &/or without abuse as an adult is a choice.

I want to show you how to Choose Life & life abundantly!" MJ

Classes Being Developed

Assistance could cover:
A safety plan for if you stay or if  you leave

Coaching you through the calls you need to

Creating a budget the fun way

What to do now that you've left: career/home/kids/pets

Resume building by filling in the gaps the right way

Move past the fear of speaking your truth and hone your interview & speaking skills for any occasion

Life plan creation or goal setting

NOTE: No two scenarios are the same between survivors no matter how similar the abuse.

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When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul; Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee:

​Proverbs 2: 10-11
victorylife house victim survivor domestic violence intimate partner nation DV overcomer solopreneur founder nonprofit charity north carolina abuse physical violence sex abuse intimidator coercion male prvilege economic isolation emotional abuse threatening denial domestic intimate partner
victorylife house victim survivor domestic violence intimate partner nation DV overcomer solopreneur founder nonprofit charity north carolina abuse physical violence sex abuse intimidator coercion male prvilege economic isolation emotional abuse threatening denial domestic intimate partner
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